As I browse through the profiles in this site, I can't help but notice the headlines which yearn to meet their soulmates. But what is a soulmate?
According to an article I read, a soulmate is a helpmate in life for the evolvement of the soul. It can be a romantic or non-romantic relationship. Since this is a dating site, let me expound on the romantic soulmate relationship.
It is said that most people go through life not finding their soulmates and thus, just settle for unsatisfying relationships. That is because they are too busy that they might have already passed by their soulmates. In fact,we might not recognize our soulmates at first sight. Some actually hate each other's guts at first sight! But if fate throw you both together another time, perhaps it is time to listen to what fate is telling you. Most of the time, fear, ego, procrastination, prejudices, and excuses prevent us from recognizing our soulmates. It is a challenging process yet rewarding, once you find that special person. It would be worth all the effort and the wait.
So, how do we recognize our soulmates? Some say it is when you feel a strong connection with the other person that almost takes your breath away. There is a mutual, unconditional love for each other. You bring out the best in each other and help each other become better individuals and achieve greater things when you work together. Without saying a word, you know your partner's thoughts and feelings and vice versa. Your experiences become far more enriching when you share them than experiencing them by yourself. You feel at peace and happy simply by being together as if you are home at last. And I guess, just trust your instinct about the other person.
Finding your soulmate is one thing. But ask yourself a question: If I found
my soulmate, would he/she recognize me as well? Be the right person for someone you want to attract in your life. Once you find that person, remember that just like any relationships, it also requires careful nurturing. When you have connected with your soulmate, you have in effect, found your perfect match. Best of luck! Be happy!